How to get the ability to learn

"UNSUPPORTIVE SELF-TALK		SUPPORTIVE SELF-TALK
I don’t need to learn this.		What would my future look like if I did?
I’m already fine at this.		Am I really? How do I compare with my peers?
This is boring.		I wonder why others find it interesting.
I’m terrible at this.		I’m making beginner mistakes but I’ll get better."	(Learning to Learn	Erika Andersen)